TAKING  THINGS  FOR  GRANTED  [2]


               Most of the cultures around the world have been patriarchal. In them, men have 

enjoyed position of power and status. Somehow women have not been given equal respect, 

even within one's own family. Mothers or wives are often taken for granted. Father is 

worshipped as a breadwinner. But the amount of work that a mother or wife does in the 

house is hardly appreciated.  She works longer hours. She bears the primary responsibility 

of raising children, cooking meals, feeding  the family, cleaning dishes and washing clothes.

               

               

               Men need to learn to express appreciation to their mother or wife, overtly and 

more often. Women are thirsty for warm loving words. They get very emotionally fulfilled 

when anything about them is appreciated.  Being grateful in life is a worthy trait to cultivate.

     

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